If I put on a body slimmer and a push-up bra and go out in a date with a man.. certainly, he may perceive me as being very naturally curvy, statuesque and just outright SEXY.
Am I intending to deceive him by doing all of this? Maybe. Or am I just merely just using little harmless devices of deception to conceal what I may perceive to be an imperfection in myself so that I can feel more comfortable? I do not think I have harmed him or myself by “enhancing” myself. No, I actually made myself feel good and look good and I have probably made him feel like a million bucks himself. Isn’t that how a man wants to feel…..like he is out with the most beautiful woman he has ever seen. I would say that I did us both a favor and there is nothing wrong with that.
However, on a different note, perhaps I hurt the young waitress who is serving us our food during this date. Perhaps now, she feels a little insecure about herself because she sees me looking like a sexy, statuesque goddess and now she feels less confident about her plain, dowdy self. Am I suppose to feel morally responsible for what someone else chooses to perceive because I needed to use a tools of deception to make myself feel comfortable? I do not think so.
Moral of the story: Maintain your sexy….by any means necessary!! It makes the world a better place to be. Haters can get over themselves.
