The growing motivation among millions of young social networking junkies, including myself, to post pictures and details of all the fun we are having in life may eventually cause us more harm than good as we age and move further into our professional lives.
Reading the article entitled Facebook Never Forgets as posted on our class Del.icio.us feed summoned me to think more carefully about how freely I may decide to post pictures of myself partying, running around in short skirts with beer in my hand or even sitting seductively on the lap of a “special friend”. These are simple fun activities, which remain relatively harmless until the wrong eyes look at them, at the wrong time.
Sure, I have absolutely NO intention what so ever to ever run for President or any political office for that matter, but I do have other personal and professional aspirations planned for myself. It doesn’t mean much right now, but having the wrong picture of me saved to the wrong persons hard drive could make for a pretty sticky situation in the future. At the very least, I may have to end up doing some explaining to someone I’d rather not have to do any explaining to about why I felt the need to take a picture bent over with my hand on my behind or my middle finger up (which, by the way, I honestly have not done in at least 10 years now).
The point the article makes is that the Internet has a viciously long memory…a lot longer than most humans. Therefore, it might be worth taking some extra consideration and precautions in everything you say/post onto social networking platforms such as Facebook, MySpace or even you own Blog.
My dream is to either one day attend or be a guest of The Oprah Show. I really look up to and respect Oprah. I am sure attending her show will not be hard for me to accomplish as long as I am willing to get on a year-long waiting list for tickets, fly to Chicago and stand on an insanely long line for hours. However, actually getting ON The Oprah Show as a guest is going to take a little more ingenuity on my part, but I have ideas on how I might go about making that happen (which I will keep to myself right now). However, how likely is Oprah going to be willing to interview me on her highly acclaimed talk show if her researchers forward her a link to some old blog I wrote about me baring my “hoo-ha’s” during an innocent Mardi Gras bachelorette weekend with my girlfriends? How seriously could she (Oprah) or any one else, like potential investors, really take me after reading something like that?
The internets’ “free-for-all gossip culture”, though currently serving as a GREAT entertainment and networking feature for me NOW, could quite possibly come back and bite me in the “hoo-ha” later if I am not more careful, selective and discriminating.
Come to think of it…..maybe, I could just settle for being an audience member on The Oprah Show instead. Yes, maybe that will do just fine.














